Santa’s
Surprise for the Lord Chancellor
Almost
200 parents and grandparents dressed as Father Christmas
paid a flying visit to London. Two buses full of
Santas arrived outside the Lord Chancellor's department
and occupied the lobby area for a 45-minute sit-in.
The group of protestors carried out their action
in the latest attempt to draw public attention to
the failings of the Family Courts. The group included
a large number of women (second wives, grandmothers
and aunts) all supporting male relatives' claims
that the UK family Law system favours mothers on
custody issues and divorce issues.
The
protestors refused to leave the Lord Chancellor's
Department until a senior civil servant Amanda
Finlay CBE agreed to meet with the protesters and
accept
a large Christmas card bearing the image of the
Lord Chancellor portrayed as Scrooge. The most senior
Metropolitan Policeman called to deal with the
sit-in
said that he would not see his children this Christmas.
The
march was arranged and sponsored by the new Fathers
rights group Fathers4Justice and took place under
the overall banner of the Coalition for Equal Parenting.
The underlying theme of the protest was the well-documented
Family Court bias towards the "resident parent" -
the parent with whom the children reside after
separation or divorce. In over 90% of all cases,
this is
the mother. Matthew
Mudge, the South Wales contact for Fathers4Justice,
commented: “Fathers
have an uphill struggle to get an Order for Contact
in the first place. In cases where the mother is
determined to sabotage children’s contact
with their father, you soon realise that Court
Orders
issued by Family Court Judges are simply not worth
the paper upon which they are written. It is indeed
a shock to discover that after huge expense, often
running into tens of thousands of pounds, and months
or even years of litigation, it all counts for
nothing. Daring to ask the Court to enforce its
own orders
generally leads to the mother’s legal team
(often legally aided) describing the father as
a vexatious litigant.”
The
protesters had traveled from all parts of the UK,
including Scotland, Newcastle, the West Country,
the Isle of Wight, the Home Counties and they were
joined by a large number of dads from many parts
of South Wales.
One
demonstrator was visibly moved by one story from
a passer-by. An elderly lady stopped to speak to
her and asked her what all the fuss was about. Having
explained, the elderly lady burst into tears and
stated that she had not seen her grandchildren for
many years for the same reasons. Their mother had
stopped all forms of contact between the children
and their paternal family. The old lady had often
looked after the children when required, but since
her son's divorce had neither received a Christmas
nor birthday cards. She said “The children
used to enjoy making me cards, especially for Mothering
Sunday but now I receive nothing and my cards addressed
to the children are returned unopened. My son hasn’t
seen his own children for almost 6 years.”
Speaking
to the demonstrators, many told similar tales. It
was perhaps no small wonder that chants of “Children
need both parents” and “Two parents are
better than one” were regularly replaced by “Stuff
the Family Courts” - hardly a festive greeting
you might say, but then again, how would you feel
if you were deliberately prevented from seeing your
children at Christmas ?
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