As
government plans to curb domestic violence assume all men
are guilty
Men are now being turned into un-persons...and
they are even being denied the basic justice
by
Melanie Phillips
Daily
Mail
Thursday, June 19, 2003 page 15
THE
Government's war against men is now plumbing ever more astonishing
depths. On Radio 4's Today program yesterday,
Horne Secretary David Blunkett could scarcely wait to boast
of new proposals to deal with domestic violence.
Such crimes are, indeed, a serious matter. But the Home Office
not only continues to distort them as overwhelmingly caused
by male aggression against innocent women and children, despite
all the evidence that this is not the case. It is now taking
a giant step towards fundamental injustice.
Anyone
truly concerned with civil liberties could not fail to have
been appalled by Mr Blunkett's comments. The problem
was, he enthusiastically explained, that at present 'you have
to get someone through court before a domestic violence suspect
can be restrained.
So his solution is to restrain them before they even get
to court. In other words, he Wants action taken against a man
on the basis of an unproven allegation by a woman - made under
the protection of anonymity, to boot.
So much for this Home Secretary's understanding of the presumption
of innocence, the meaning of justice and the necessity for
a trial of the facts.
Even worse, despite the fact that he has just given the women's
refuge movement extra millions in public funds, he thinks women
should not have to move out when they claim they are being
attacked.
The men they are accusing should move out instead, pronto.
So men will now be evicted from their homes simply on the basis
of an accusation.
The way will thus be clear for a woman who has tired of her
man to get the police to evict him, without the tedious irrelevance
of having to 'get someone through a court'. These are proposals
which are simply inimical to the rule of law. They also spectacularly
miss the point.
True,
some 150 people - the majority of whom are women - are killed
at home every year.
But
if we want to stop the appalling toll of domestic violence,
we have to address the unstable relationships which are fuelling
the phenomenon.
For
unmarried partners present vastly more risks of physical
abuse to both adults and children at home than do married
couples.
Transient relationships lead to more jealousy, insecurity
and, in extreme cases, violence. Furthermore, unmarried individuals
are far more likely to abuse a child in their care with whom
they have no biological connection.
The Home Office itself has previously acknowledged that the
dislocation arising from marital breakdown presents a 'key
risk factor' in domestic violence.
Yet the Government has encouraged the false belief that all
relationships are equal in value. While thus giving its blessing
to domestic arrangements which give rise to violence between
intimates, the Government is choosing to pile the blame on
men.
For
although it claims, in passing, that one in six men suffers
from domestic violence,- it says women
are mainly their victims. This is a wicked distortion of the
facts. There is overwhelming evidence from dozens of
international studies that women are as violent towards men
as men are towards women. Women are, indeed, more likely to
initiate violence.
Even the Home Office - which persistently ignores this research
- reported some years back that equal numbers of men and women
were initiating violence towards each other.
Certainly, women get hurt more badly in such fights because
men tend to be stronger. That is presumably why more women
than men are killed in these disputes. But there is also much
anecdotal evidence that many men are too ashamed to report
their injuries.
The Home Office report reheats, yet again, a number of misleading
old chestnuts. It says, for example, that one in four women
suffers domestic violence.
This is rot. It is a figure extrapolated from studies that
don't stand up to serious scrutiny - illustrating the dismal
standards which characterise virtually all domestic violence
research in this country, but which the Home office not only
slavishly relies upon but also funds.
NOT ONLY does the Government distort the facts about violence
between adults, but it ignores the role played by women in
violence towards children.
For all the evidence suggests that while men commit most
child sexual abuse, women subject children to more neglect,
physical injury and even murder. An NSPCC study a few years
ago revealed that mothers were the most frequent perpetrators
of children's physical injury, emotional abuse and neglect.
This is hardly surprising since mothers generally have more
contact with their children than anyone else.
In America, where trends are likely to be similar to Britain,
the Department of Justice said that in 1999, three out of five
maltreated children had been abused by their mothers.
And in 2001, the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services
reported that 32.4 per cent of child fatalities were committed
by mothers, compared to 14.2 per cent committed by fathers,
14 per cent by non-parents and 25.1 per cent by mothers and
fathers acting together.
So the idea that men are responsible for the vast majority
of domestic violence is simply untrue. Yet Mr Blunkett is urging
women to make more such claims - on the basis of which men
are to be deprived of their homes, their children and their
reputations. These preposterous proposal.~ re based on the
extreme feminist belief - which has captured the Home Office
- that all men are guilty. That's why rape trials are now to
be rigged, too, by weighting the burden of proof against the
defendant.
Many men are already victims of this egregious prejudice
in the divorce courts, where unproven allegations against them
are automatically believed and used to deprive them of contact
with their children.
Clearly,
some men are, indeed, guilty of violence against the women
they live with or their children. But some men are
guilty of other crimes, too.
Yet this has not caused the Government to tear up the elementary
rules of justice in those cases. So why is domestic violence
so different? The answer is that men are being demonised as
intrinsic rapists, wife beaters and child abusers as part of
a broader agenda.
It is nothing less than an aim to destroy the married family,
cripple ,male power' by emasculating men's role and undermine
masculinity itself.
So
men are given the impression they can no longer be breadwinners
(unless they are separated from their children's mother, in
which case they will be pursued for money the length and breadth
of the land) -
Meanwhile, women are lured back into the workplace by a government
fanatical in its feminist agenda. Only recently there was a
report from the Women And Equality Unit which implied that
it was wrong for women to stay at home with their children
when they could be economically active.
At
the same time, men are patronised as emotionally illiterate
and regarded as no more than walking wallets, sperm donors
and mothers' au pairs.
In fact, the biggest protection against domestic violence
is marriage, the very institution the Government is busy destroying.
Domestic violence is far rarer within the stable and loving
context that marriage affords than among cohabiting couples
Who are more prone to insecurity and jealousy.
Since the Government's approach is exposing hundreds of thousands
of children to hugely increased risks of violence and abuse,
Mr Blunkett's pious assertion that he was 'putting children
first' was enough to make one choke on the cornflakes.
By encouraging mass fatherlessness, this Government is putting
children last.
These domestic violence proposals go even further: removing
men not just from family life, but from the protection of the
law itself.
They are being turned into unpersons, excluded from the ambit
of human rights (so much for the wretched Human Rights Act).
And once again it is a male politician, in the emasculated
Home office, who is putting the boot into men.
Men are demonised as intrinsic rapists,, wife beaters and
child abusers as part of a broader agenda
m.phillips@dailymail.co.uk
Link: Melanie Phillips' website
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