It
needs to be clearly stated that the judge has the power to jail
the
mother for obstructing access. The recent precedent is where judges jailed
mothers for failing to send their children to school. Mothers responded
(when they came out of jail) by sending their children to school.
There is no room for discussion on this issue. Judges, including our most
senior judges Sloss and Thorpe, are inciting mothers to defy the law. It is
so very dishonest of them to claim they are powerless. When our most senior
judges incite citizens to defy the law, the next stage is anarchy. Sloss,
Bracewell, Thorpe and the rest are doing enormous damage, having themselves
failed in their own families.
We
are dealing with ignorant, arrogant people at the top of the
family court system. Thorpe's own (drink driving) family is a
mess, as is Sloss's (using prostitutes),
and twice divorced Bracewell argues that marriage has no meaning.
People
with dysfunctional families themselves have decision making power
over millions of families. Sloss takes out her resentment over
her husband's misconduct on other fathers.
Why
does Thorpe follow her?
"Judges
can fine, or jail uncooperative mothers, but these sanctions
are rarely used. Fines against those
on Income Support seem pointless.
[Butler-Sloss] believes prison will only make things worse: "It
is not going to advance the relationship between the child and
the non-resident parent at all," says Butler-Sloss. "The
mother will say to the child, 'Your dad put me into prison; that's
the kind of man he is'. - ..."
Sunday Times, Feb 17, 2002, Margarette
Driscoll.
The
fact that Butler-Sloss can envisage a mother saying that to a
child, but is oblivious to the child abuse the statement contains,
speaks volumes about the double standards found everywhere when
men seek equal treatment.
This is not a procedural issue requiring extra legislation, as
some have made out, but the deep reluctance by judges to jail a
woman. We believe they would have little compunction in jailing
fathers caring for children if they tried to obstruct contact,
so the discriminatory double standards must stem from a fear of
adverse publicity.
However,
jailing a father for the same offence who then loses his job
income, liberty and contact rights to see his children,
is deemed legitimate.
It is a common misconception that children will automatically
suffer if they leave their mother's home.
Thorpe
demonstrates that he allows himself to be influenced by what
Psychologists term the 'maternal
deprivation'
theorem, and he thus can not conceive that children can be switched
from one home to another. This
is a traditional Bowlby view that meant during the 1960's even
children who were abused in their own homes were not moved.
Rutter
(knighted for work that debunked Bowlby) said that such a view
is ridiculous. He held that even a bad institution is better
that a home in which the child is abused. Mr Justice Wall recently wrote that on a couple of occasions he
had switched children from one home to another with remarkable
effects.
Asked
to produce these two judgemenents, The Lord Chancellors Department
stated that since these two judgments by Mr Wall were not in
the High Court or Court of
Appeal they were not recorded.
(ED: Do we see here another prime example
of how the secret Family Courts' current ban on the public
pronouncement of judgement goes against the wider public
good and against the welfare of children?).
| Letter
in the Sunday Telegraph 1/6/03 |
Fathers do not get justice from the Law
... . The dictum that child custody should always go to the mother irrespective
of her conduct was established in 1948 by the Appeal Court in the
case of a prisoner of war who returned home to find his wife and
his eight-year-old daughter living with another man. The judges
felt that he had been greatly wronged but that they could do nothing
but award custody to the mother.
In the 1970s,
Lord Lane established that blameless fathers could be ousted
from their own homes, declaring sadly that "the
law does not seem to be about justice - it seems that the needs
of children have to come first".
(Dr) John Campion
Hindhead, Surrey
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